No I also kind of massage in the scalp and leave it in for a bit, say 20min? Dont have the time to leave it in longer but can do if that helps.
And I shower everyday yes, so washing the hair everyday too.
I use immortal’s oil and that works like a charm for me, both on the skin and hair. Just read up about on this site even lol
Following up Abe’s comments Id also say check the central heating as when that creeps up, it can dry you out! :S
Do you moisterise?